She has got her own life including her own career, her own apartment, her own friends and her own money.This makes a man feel comforting when knowing that her life will go on when he is not around, Also, an older woman has got her own money, which means she worked hard to earn it.They want strong, powerful men and you’ve got to show her you’re that kind of man – who just happens to be a bit younger. You can start with strong, confident body language and eye contact.Stand up straight and keep your movements controlled and purposeful (avoid fidgeting).
She is drawn to you for the same reason so many men chase younger women: she is attracted by your youthful enthusiasm. If you are just a boy toy she turns to for sex, she will get bored with you quickly.
Cougar Town, Sex and the City, The Graduate – cougars have been present in popular culture for quite some time, but have never been more greatly represented on TV and film as they are right now.